Yes, we are. Jesus commands us to.
He tells us to turn the other cheek when people abuse us. He didn’t specify which people…just “people.”
But how does he tell us to treat one another?
Oh yes…He said to “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” That is, treat others the way you want them to treat you. So if you want people to treat you nicely, you need to be nice to them too.
So I find it frustrating when Christians use the commands of forgiveness, and turning the other cheek, as a license to treat other Christians badly, and then expect to be forgiven because that is what we’re supposed to do. Christians who behave that way are not really playing fair.
Nobody likes being wrong. Nobody likes to eat crow and admit they screwed up and ask for forgiveness, but it’s the only mature thing to do…